Showing posts with label Culture. Show all posts
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Friday, December 30, 2011

New Year’s Eve

The year of 2011 is close to the end.
Matto and I are having guests and having dinner at Coquette (http://www.coquette-nola.com/) on New Year’s Eve and then we will probably watch a countdown at Times Square, New York, on TV at home.  I will write about our experience at Coquette later.

Today I would like to introduce how Japanese celebrate New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day.

In the U.S., New Year’s Eve is one of the big party days.  People get together with friends and celebrate by the use of alcohol and fireworks.
On the other hand, New Year’s Day is the biggest family celebration day in Japan.  As an example New Year’s Day in Japan is an equivalent to Thanksgiving or Christmas in the U.S.


When I was in Japan, I had never had a year that I didn’t spend time with my family on both New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day.

In Japan, most people get off from work for 6-8 days before and after New Year’s Day.
Kids generally get a 2-week winter break from December 26th to January 5th.

For the coming new year, our biggest job is to clean our whole house, known as “O-Soji”.   We organize closet spaces in the entire house, clean the windows, power wash the outside of the house, wax the hard wood floors, clean the bathrooms, clean the kitchen etc…..Cleaning at  this time of the year is really intense in Japan.

On New Year’s Eve we watch a traditional TV show at night, called Ko-haku Utagassen.  Each TV station plays special New Year TV shows all night of New Year’s Eve and all day on New Year’s Day.


Traditional New Year’s Eve dinner is Soba (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soba), also known as Toshi Koshi Soba. There are several sayings for eating Soba on New Year’s Eve but in general we believe that eating Soba brings us happiness for the upcoming year.

Buddhist Temples ring their bells 108 times at midnight on New Year’s Eve. This tradition is called joya no kane which means "bell rings on new year eve's night”. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Year's_Eve#Japan)
We would go to our temple, greet the monk, and participate in ringing bell at night.
Volunteers usually serve hot soup to guests who visit the temple.
We don’t participate in ringing the bell every year but I love the experience whenever I go.

http://honeypotter.wordpress.com/2011/02/page/2

After the countdown, my family would go to bed.

New Year’s morning, we would get up and eat breakfast. We eat Zoni (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zōni) as a traditional breakfast for the new year.
Zoni is a miso soup containing rice cakes (Mochi).

http://justjennrecipes.com/category/holiday/new-years-day/

On January 1st, we receive a lot of greeting cards from friends and family. These cards are called “Nenga jo” which are similar to Christmas cards here. 
After breakfast, we would first go to a shrine in our neighborhood.   Each neighborhood has a shrine and we believe that it protects our house and family.  So we go there to pray for our happiness in the New Year.

And then we would visit our temple to give the monk a New Year’s greeting.


Next we would go to my paternal grandparents’ house and see our relatives for lunch.
Here we eat Osechi, another traditional New Year’s food (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Osechi).
Each dish in the container (called Jyu-Bako) has a special meaning to celebrate the New Year.
Here are some examples… (refered from Wikipedia)

                Daidai (), Japanese bitter orange. Daidai means "from generation to generation" when written in different kanji as 代々. Like kazunoko below, it symbolizes a wish for children in the New Year.
                Datemaki (伊達巻 or 伊達巻き), sweet rolled omelette mixed with fish paste or mashed shrimp. This symbolizes a wish for many auspicious days. On auspicious days (晴れの日, hare-no-hi), Japanese people traditionally wear fine clothing as a part of enjoying themselves. One of the meanings associated with the second kanji includes "fashionability," derived from the illustrious dress of the samurai from Date Han.
                Kamaboko (蒲鉾), broiled fish cake. Traditionally, slices of red and white kamaboko are alternated in rows or arranged in a pattern. The color and shape are reminiscent of Japan rising sun, and have a celebratory, festive meaning.
                Kazunoko (数の子), herring roe. Kazu means "number" and ko means "child." It symbolizes a wish to be gifted with numerous children in the New Year.
                Konbu (昆布), a kind of seaweed. It is associated with the word yorokobu, meaning "joy."
                Kuro-mame (黒豆), black soybeans. Mame also means "health," symbolizing a wish for health in the New Year.
                Kohaku-namasu (紅白なます), literally "red-white vegetable kuai," is made of daikon and carrot cut into thin strips and pickled in sweetened vinegar with yuzu flavor.
                Tai (), red sea-bream. Tai is associated with the Japanese word medetai, symbolizing an auspicious event.
                Tazukuri (田作り), dried sardines cooked in soy sauce. The literal meaning of the kanji in tazukuri is "rice paddy maker," as the fish were used historically to fertilize rice fields. The symbolism is of an abundant harvest.
                Zōni (雑煮), a soup of mochi rice cakes in clear broth (in eastern Japan) or miso broth (in western Japan).
                Ebi (エビ), skewered prawns cooked with sake and soy sauce.
                Nishiki tamago (錦卵), egg roulade; the egg is separated before cooking, yellow symbolizing gold, and white symbolizing silver.


We eat and talk just like Thanksgiving or Christmas in the U.S.
One different thing from these American holidays is that only kids get special gifts from adults.
Kids normally get money from relatives as New Year gifts, called Otoshidama.
It is handed out in a special envelop called “Pochi Bukuro”.
The amount of money varies depending on the family, normally 3,000-10,000 yen ($38-$129).
When kids are small, parents usually open a bank account under kids’ name and save the Otoshidama each year for their future needs.
I used to receive Otoshidama from my relatives until I graduated from college. I saved most of my Otoshidama since I was 0 year old and used the money to come to the U.S. to attend graduate school.


In the afternoon my family would next go to my maternal grandparents’ house for dinner.
My father’s and mother’s relatives live in the same city, so it is pretty busy for our family to visit both of families on the same day during a holiday season.

That’s our family tradition for New Year’s Day.

And then January 2nd is the biggest shopping day in Japan just like Black Friday in the U.S.
New Year’s Day used to be my favorite national holiday when I was in Japan.  One day I will take Matto to Japan for a New Year season!!!

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Christmas Kurisumasu

Christmas is coming!!!!

Today, I would like to talk about Christmas traditions in Japan.
“How Japanese people celebrate Christmas”


You may think of Christmas as a family holiday because Christmas is the biggest holiday of the year in the U.S. Family gets together to celebrate, have a huge party, eat a lot of food, exchange gifts……..and of course watch football!

But Japanese people don’t celebrate exactly the same way as American people do.


I am going to talk here about my Japanese Christmas experiences and opinions. Other Japanese people may have a difference of opinions. 

85-94% of the population of Japan adheres to either Buddhism or Shintoism.  Today more than 70% of Japanese people would say that they have no personal religion.
For example, historically Japanese culture has been strongly influenced by Buddhism.
I was raised by strict Buddhist parents and grandparents, but it doesn’t mean I am a strict Buddhist

While growing up in Japan I had never seen any churches or been exposed to the Christian religion.  The only thing that I knew about Christmas was “it is Jesus’s birthday” and “Santa is supposed to bring me a gift”.
In Japan Christmas isn’t a national holiday, meaning we don’t get a day off from school or work.
Christmas is just another day.

Usually on the night of the 24th my family (parents, sister, brother, and I) would have dinner together and eat a cake for dessert.
Typically the type of food that we would have on Christmas eve would be, fried chicken (from KFC), sushi……etc.  We would never have a whole turkey mainly because grocery stores don’t sell it, and more importantly our oven wasn’t big enough to put a whole turkey (Remember, everything is bigger in Texas, but everything is smaller in Japan!!)

In Japan cake is a really important item for Christmas!! Unlike in the U.S. Japanese people don’t eat pie or cookies for Christmas. The cake has to be a whipped cream-icing Christmas cake  (Christmas is the busiest day of the year for bakeries).
Attached pictures are some examples of Christmas cake that bakeries sell in Japan.

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http://www.cafeblo.com/choco_revo/img/145/l000085113_00.jpg

At night when we were sleeping, Santa would bring us a gift and put it next to our pillows.  Why next to the pillows?? Because in our house we only had a 10-inch tree and it wasn’t big enough to put presents under.  Actually I didn’t even know the gifts were supposed to arrive under the tree.  I always thought Santa placed gifts next to people’s pillow until I came to the U.S.

In the U.S. Santa comes to people’s houses and places gifts into stockings that are hung above mantel.
As a kid somehow I knew about this, so I used to put my socks (that I wore) next to my pillow.  Santa didn't place my gift into my socks, so I realized that my socks weren’t big enough.  The following year I switched my socks to my Dad’s clean underwear so Santa would be able to fit my present in :P

In the U.S. Santa comes into the house through the chimney.
Most Japanese houses don’t have chimneys.  I used to ask my mother where Santa came from, and she would answer me, “From the window. We unlock the window for Santa for the night.”.  Somehow this used to make sense to me……

Around 6th grade, Santa stopped bringing me presents…… my mother said, “you are old enough you don’t need presents anymore”.
Christmas is the day for kids to take an advantage of
But we still got a Christmas cake :) I told you cake is a big deal!!!!!!

When I became a high school student, Christmas became a whole different day. It was not Santa’s day anymore.
In Japan, if people have a boyfriend or girlfriend, they celebrate, eat a romantic dinner and exchange a gift.  If people don’t have a boyfriend or girlfriend, it is just like any other day.

It sounds like Valentine’s day, doesn’t it?
Yes, it is.

Christmas is an excuse for couples to have a romantic date in Japan!!!!!!!


In my opinion, I love Christmas in the U.S. better because Santa still brings me gifts :D
But I miss Japanese Christmas cake…….

So Matto and I decided to start a new family tradition for Christmas and we are going to make our own Christmas cake!!!!!


Our 1st Christmas cake is coming up :)